• Funny Funny Funny What Money Can Do

    Funny, Funny, Funny, What Money Can Do

    There is an old Dean Martin song describing the love-hate relationship people have with money. While it’s “Funny What Money Can Do,” it’s certainly not humorous when it comes to the effect it can have on marriage. We have addressed in previous articles how couples and families go through periods…

  • holiday mommy stress and anxiety

    Mommy Holiday Stress

    Kathy, I feel guilty and confused. We have always alternated holidays, but it’s getting to the point that I’m starting to dread the packing of the presents, side dishes, and the kids’ toys and diapers.  I hate the mall. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to start our…

  • Empty Nest: Ambivalent Emotions When Kids Leave Home

    Empty Nest: Ambivalent Emotions When Kids Leave Home

    Penny (not her real name) was a vibrant mother of four. She expressed confusion, selfishness, anxiety and shame regarding her mixed emotions when her daughter left home. Kathy, we took our daughter to school last month and I’ve  found myself getting more depressed ever since. It’s confusing though because I’m…